Yesterday's 8 miles was just what I needed. I hadn't felt that good in a while! So, training through the week does make the "long runs" easier. I also find that if I don't train, I tend to be more negative. You can read through my blogs & tell. So if they take on a negative/depressing tone, just ask me how the training is going & tell me to get back on track. Chances are, I'm being slack.
My sister turned 30 yesterday. If you saw her, you would swear she was all of 16 years old, being 4'9" and 95 lbs--perhaps more because she's 6 mos along now with my second nephew. We saw "Hairspray" and went to Sal & Mookie's for pizza. We had a good time, but I'm very concerned about her. Months ago, she moved out of our folks' house and moved in with a friend of hers. They live in a very tiny one bedroom apartment. I don't trust this friend. She didn't give my sister a key to the apartment & she uses my sister's car--she has a key, obviously. I asked her had she considered adoption. It seems to be the logical way out of her situation, IMO. My parents are already raising her first son. She has no job, the dad is no where on the scene, and she's being used by her roommate. Of course, my mom is losing sleep over this.
Her (my sister's) response to me (in regard to adoption) was, "No, why, you want it??" As much as I would love to raise my nephew, it wouldn't be the right thing to do. I asked her what if she had an objection to my parenting skills, could she hold her tongue?? She said she wouldn't because it wouldn't be her place, but of course she would say something because
I would in that situation. Plus, he (the baby) would always wonder when he gets older why she kept his brother, but gave him up. I don't want him to experience that pain. :(
I advised her to move back home. She said she's thinking about it. She usually takes my advice.